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Must-Haves to Spice Up Your Bedroom Play
Hit the best positions for YOUR hot spots while also supporting your body (great for weak knees, back, etc.).
This product is perfect as a discrete addition to your bedroom for those with kids at home.
The Magic Wand has stood the test of time and technology for good reason!
I like THIS particular version because a plugin will never let you down and will last at least 10 years even under heavy use. This vibe comes with a variable speed controller and you'll love the chance to find what works for you without having to scroll through pre-set vibe patterns.
Brought to you by the founders of The Sexy Lifestyle, this waterproof blanket is your best friend when it comes to easy cleanup after messy sex!
I own three because one is generally in the laundry. They come in different sizes, colors, are durable, and easy to clean. Sex is more carefree and fun with you're ready for the mess!
This is a must-have for all levels of skill and proclivities... and will help your skills, your back, your knees, your endurance, and your reputation for being a lover that knows how to hit the right spots.
This is a lube that "plays well with others." If you're using condoms, playing back-door games, or using toys this is a chemically clean lube that can go the distance!
There are three different products! Sometimes I like a smaller, more discrete size of lube for my play bag and this hits the mark! They know how to roll and also sell refills.
Sitting semi-reclined with a toy that has a curve to it really gives you the opportunity to find the 5 hot spots you're looking for! Glass is inexpensive, non-toxic, and can be sanitized in the dishwasher if that's of interest to you.
This game is action-packed and great for couples wanting to explore their hidden desires and fun fantasies. From seductive foreplay to sexual positions, your sexy time will always be new and exciting.
Coconut oil is fantastic and inexpensive lube. I love it because it is chemically clean, you can ingest it, absorb it through your skin, it is anti-fungal and inexpensive. This brand is smooth and even comes with a convenient and quick-access pump top.
I keep a few containers for convenience ;o)
This is a portable, inexpensive, and highly effective solution to wet sex. They're lightweight but can handle 2L of fluid! I use them for travel because they are lightweight and quick to rinse and dry out so you're ready for your second round of fun on the same day.
Sex is more carefree and fun with you're ready for the mess!
Our earliest experiences shape our lives far down the road, and this book provides powerful scientific and emotional insights into the behavioral patterns so many of us struggle to understand.
Favorite Vendors, Educators, & Communities
Liberator transforms ordinary bedrooms into supportive landscapes for intimacy by presenting angles, elevations, curves, and motion that help people of all sizes & mobility find satisfying ways to connect with their partners.
With a wide range of furniture and toys, Liberator has something to spark everyone's interest!
Uberlube is a pure, premium lubricant, uniquely designed to transfer sensation while reducing friction. Long-lasting performance that lets skin feel skin. Made with clean and condom-friendly ingredients, Uberlube dissipates when no longer needed—no sticky residue!
Ublerlube is a top-tier lube, recommended by leading doctors (including Dr. Cari Oneal!)
Local? Coming to visit?
Based in the Salt Lake City, UT area, Risque Soiree is a fun, diverse, and safe environment to play in. They host educational and erotic events both virtually and in-person and they are one of my top recommended sex-positive communities.